“Age is Just a Number”
“Age is Just a Number” I don’t like those banal sayings: “You’re only as old as you think you are.” “Age is just a number.” Arggghh, me thinks the elderly do protest too much. Yet, I’m living it. When in our twenties and thirties, we would load up the kids (those born to us and those we took in) and travel to my grandmother’s senior-living apartment in Florida. My grandmother, on my mother’s side, enjoyed our visits, enjoyed being around ‘young folk’ and bitterly complained that she was surrounded by old people. She never joined in with the myriad of activities available to her: bingo, cards, outings to town in an 15-seater old-people-mobile. She hated living with old people, with scheduled activities, and nurse check-ins. She refused to be babysat or to drink the kool-aid of Oldness. As children, we grandkids would call her our modern grandma , as opposed to my father’s mother, who was our old-fashioned grandmother. I loved them both. My modern grandmother lived in a retir...

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